She Really Seemed Interested, but is She!? ?

Question

So I met her last week at a social gathering and gave her a ride home. The next day I hung out with her at another event. On Tuesday she came with some friends, with some of my buddies and I - we went on a night hike and she was really getting into my personal space being real friendly and everything. She paid more attention to me than the other guys and that evening I asked for her number and she gave it to me. So the next day I texted her and she texted me back, and we exchanged like 30 messages... Then the next day I left a voice mail on her answering machine asking her to give me a call back, because I wanted to ask her about something. That was last night, but she hasn't called back. I was going to ask her on a more formal date but don't know what to do now but wait... Later today I sent a text about whether she got the voice mail or not and she has yet to respond to either. So now I am wondering how long it takes a woman to respond and if she doesn't respond, then what's up!? This is already starting to feel strange. If she doesn't respond... I'm just gonna move along and look for someone else. This woman really seemed special though and treating me much better than any woman has in a long time... Previous experiences have left me feeling used and manipulated. Is that what I get for being a nice guy!? Sheesh...

Answer 1

Dude just chill and she will call u. If not, call her back and be like what up. Feel her out. If she doesn't call u then you have her answerer.



No hard feeling she would rather just be friends... And that means no Poonany 4 you.



Relax... Out of 10 girls you hang with or meat 8 of them will be this exacted scenario.

Answer 2

If she was interested in you she would call you. She gave you her # so you WOULD call her. By not calling you back, that sends the message she is not interested. She just made it easy on herself by being nice to your face but not having to face you to let you down.



It's a nifty little trick girls think up. Works every time. Too bad the guy has to be left hanging! It sucks, I know the feeling!



Move on.

Answer 3

You've already contacted her twice so just wait, I mean not forever, but don't try again. Perhaps she just lost her phone or the battery is dead and she forgot to charge it.



It seems like you have come in contact her through friends so I'm sure you'll run into her again and then you can see how she reacts when she sees you.

Answer 4

i never call people back..

and when i get a message sometimes i set the phone down and forget to answer those too..



it doesnt mean she's not interested. she may just be busy, or forgetful like me. try contacting her again another day. :)

Answer 5

just wait it out and relax man she might be really sure with something who knows jsut wait for her to get back at you

Answer 6

If you think that she is special , she is worth the wait. you never know, her phone could be dead. trust me , i know. i always forget to charge my phone , so when people try to get in touch with me , they cant.

Answer 7

she mite b puttin on a front. if she answers 2 quick, she mite think it makes her seem desperate OR she can jus b busy

Answer 8

how old r u?

........You should have did her!