I just found some stuff out about my ex..?

Question

ive just found out stuff about my ex that i didnt know from when we were going out
its really hurt me and now i feel totally ****
i dont know what to do
i dont know whether to tell them and confront them about it
or just to leave it

help?

thanks in advance
x

Answer 1

Well, this person is your ex now, right? If you're not dating them, why is it a concern to you?



Unless it was something directly at you, I would just say let it go. However, if it WAS something directly at you, talk to them about it.

Answer 2

He's your ex so he's history already leave him in the past if you start talking about all this to him it only gives him a reason to answer back and an arguement ensue or even worse he worms his way back it.Just tell yourself now you have heard this you are right to be rid of him.

Answer 3

he is your ex-its over and not your concern any more so unless you are at risk of having got an std or something from him of which you will need to deal with personally. He is not your concern or problem any more.

Answer 4

I'd just leave it, you're already split up so you're best off and now this bad news just confirms that not being with him is for the best

Answer 5

if it will affect u not to know the answer - ask, and hope for an honest one, if u can move on without it - just let him be your ex and don't bother

wish u luck, dear

Answer 6

confront him about it and get all your feelings out so that way they arent stored inside of you. then after that just never talk to him and move on.

Answer 7

Your EX? Ex means Ex so forget it.

Answer 8

It's bad to bottle everything up so get your feelings across! and you will feel a lot better after!

Answer 9

just leave it. who cares. stop worrying about the past. you've got better things to do in the future.

Answer 10

If he's your ex, why do you care? Forget him and find someone else to care about.

Answer 11

think yourself lucky he is your ex and pat yourself on the back for getting rid.

Answer 12

It's your ex - leave it, move on.

Answer 13

depends o what it is.