Quick question about dry humping with my boyfriend...?

Question

Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 months (we're both 17) and I am absolutely crazy about him. Sometimes, when we're in my basement and we're making out on the couch, he'll start dry humping me.

It's pretty easy to tell that he likes it, and it feels pretty good for me too, but I was just wondering what are the odds that he would c*m while we were doing that? Would I even be able to tell, like would his pants be noticeably wet? If he did c*m and then we went upstairs and saw my mom, would she be able to tell that he came if she looked at his pants and saw a wet spot or something like that?

I don't want him to get blue balls from us dry humping because I've heard that hurts, but I just feel kind of awkward and unsure about what would happen if he came. Would he even necessarily get that turned on than he would get blue balls or get close to coming, or am I just making a big deal out of nothing?

Please don't make fun of me for this question or tell me that I'm too young or not ready or blah blah. I know that I'm pretty naive but it's just because I go to an all girls school, so interaction with guys has been pretty limited for me haha.

Answer 1

the odds are pretty high if your doing it for a long period of time. And it all depends on how the guy acts as to whether you wil know if he comes or not. Like if he makes any noises or his breathing goes funny and prob the biggest give away will be that he will go harder and faster jsut before and then once he has he will more then likely stop. thats how i can tel when my boyfriend is coming while were having sex so it would be similar. If he is wearing undies i doubt you would see it through his pants but he will prob feel really uncomfortable afterwards cos it will be all stickey.hope this helps :)

Answer 2

I think he came, not "Just peed in your pants" wet, it's about 1-2 teaspoons of thick liquid. And I seriously doubt he'll come inside his jeans since it'll be incredibly sticky. You'll know if he's coming cause his moans would escalate and he should tell you if he's coming or not (It's just sex etiquette) As for the "Blue balls", he probably releases himself afterwards or he just needs to put up with the uncomfortable feeling. It's not an agonizing pain, it's just uncomfortable and that's the price he pays for doing that with you.

Answer 3

The odds of him c**ing is around 95%...but you can ask him to wear some dark shade jeans so that it ain't tht visible....and it dries off in sometime. Also, if he c*ms, he won't suffer from Blue balls...Trust me, It pains really bad when it happens...it seems as if some one has kicked on your man sack reaallly hard...

By now, I am sure that stage of yours has surpassed...I don't see the agenda of dry humping when you can have sex with a condom on...I mean that is obviously equivalent minus the embarrassment of someone catching you of a wet pant...

Answer 4

Aww...Um...yes he'll c*m but no it shouldn't be noticeable not unless he hasn't done it in a while then enough will come out that it will show but other then that I think your good...and if he was "blue balling" then I'm pretty sure he would tell you or try not to get turned on so much....lol

Answer 5

Actually - it's good to hear from a 17 year old who's NOT having sex. Hardly find those anymore ; ) You have nothing to worry about. He won't get blue@#$%. As for your mother noticing - Im sure she'd be happy just knowing your not having sex - so don'y worry about a little ol wet spot.

Answer 6

1. yes he might come

2.yes his pants might look wet, depending on the material and colour. Jeans are pretty tough, probably wouldn't matter, but light, thin fabrics might well show tell-tale spots.

3. you are making more of it than you need. His problem not yours.

Btw, ejaculate is not as "wet" as water.

Answer 7

I heard blue balls is a medical condition, not related to that stuff.

Answer 8

No, she proably wont be able to tell.



Hurry up and let him *** before he gets blue balls!1!!!!

Answer 9

you two should probably just do it. it feels better

Answer 10

its possible he could ***, but unlikely.