Is this strange behaviour?

Question

I got quite close to a girl at work, who has now left. We chatted a lot, confided in each other, got on really well and close. On nights out, she never speaks to me and never hugs me goodbye.

I tried to speak to her about her strange behaviour towardsme, but she wouldn't answer any of my questions and changed the subject. She said she doesn't want us to lose contact and that our friendship is fine.

Her best mates have tried to speak to her about her strange behaviour towards me, but she says the subject is closed and won't speak about it.

She spoke with our mutual friend recently who told her we are in touch a lot (she was surprised by this) Our mutual friend also told me that she was asking whether I asked about her at all. Our mutual friend did tell her that I get annoyed that she only gets in touch if she wants something.

We don't really contact each other anymore (she won't even say how things are with her), though she does respond if I contact her (and vise versa).

1. Does she still care seeing she asked our mutual friend whether I ask about her?
2. Why is she acting strange towards me?

Answer 1

okay the answers your having means nothing and theyre typical fair play,but i remember once when i was with a boy i acted exactly the same! i'll tell you why (: ..

i really liked this boy i was really in love with him, he was just perfect he ticked all of my boxes :) but i was scared because i had never had sexual intorcose before, i didnt know how to kiss him the way he was trying to do it, i didn't know how to work it well in the bedroom because id never done something like this before, i hadn't kissed and i hadnt had sex before, and i didn't want him to know because i wasnt sure he liked me and that he'd laugh at me and tell all of his friends and i was scared really uncormfortable around him. so maybe she's never done something like this before and she's scared you'll laugh your **** off at her if she told you the turth, and even though she's acting weird with you he really likes you! she's asking your mutal friend if your thinking about or or talk about her because she thinks your going to forget about her, i think you should try meeting up with her and asking her about something like this, but try not to make it sound to difficult on her because then she will get scared! my other thing is maybe she's done it before, she's had a relationship she thought everything was going perfect until he went and did something to her that hurt her, and because she may really like you she doesnt want it to happen to her again because she's totally in love with you! you can tell through what youve written, i may not know her but dude she's fallen for you...BIG TIME! :) x

Answer 2

Has she a boyfriend? or a family who dont like her speaking to men?Some girls are careful around guys,she might have been hurt in a previous relationship.This could be just a ego trip for her,some girls are like that.Keeping guys attached to them like charms on a bracelet.But you wont know any of this to you ask her face to face.You are not a mind reader.You will have to speak to her and not on 'flippin Facebook.Otherwise leave her to it.Theres only so much a guy can do..good luck.

Answer 3

Yeah, if I was you I'd be pretty pissed off about the situation.



1.) I wouldn't say necessarily that she still cares, but she does think about you.

2.) It seems to me that maybe she wants to hook up but at the same time she doesn't.



If it were me personally, I'd confront her about this and try to get a direct definite answer. If I didn't get a direct definite answer then I'd straight up lose all connection with her, and just move on. But that's just me.

Answer 4

Dont pass on my own together with her anywhr and attempt to flee if she is composed of ur homestead,she is doing very incorrect.u might desire to shop ur decrease ,dont ever do such issues watever sh says like bra hooks ,,slumbering,,,she is decrease priced as i think so..why dont u tell her quickly that u r nt liking the thngs wat she says..u r nt a baby .u can arise to her ,,,why did u close her bra hooks,,,under no circumstances do it in simple terms say take help of girls human beings i dont opt for to do and in simple terms walk out angrily from room,teach ur anger she might desire to comprehend it...

Answer 5

She probably hates you... Shes angry on you about something, I don't know what... But why do you care?? Just don't talk to her anymore, and brake up ur relationship!

Answer 6

she probably thought you were getting clingy and it made her uncomfortable...or shes a lebiand and doesnt like having men touch her

Answer 7

i think she still wants to b ur mutual friend

and nothing more



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Answer 8

leave her...keep her as a frnddddddddddd

Answer 9

i dont may be she dont like you