I had a one night stand so guilty?

Question

I'm 16 , 17 in a few months, awhile ago I lost my virginity I didn't regret it and after I had sex again I didn't regret it and I had sex last night I never felt so sick and disgusted with myself , all with boys who don't mean **** and I don't talk to any of them all strangers all one night stands, it all happened, the first last September , the second November and this one last night am I a slut?

Answer 1

Look we all have meaningless sex, and I am not advocating it or saying it is healthy. But seriously you need to stop feeling bad about yourself. Honestly all teenagers feel this sense of immense pressure to maintain their reputation because honestly that is all teenagers talk about is if you are a girl and had sex automaticfally you are a slut that is not true. All you have to worry about as a teenager is what your peers think about you, which is stupid because in the real world if all you talk and care about is about with who slept with so and so and who ever is a slut, well then obviously you are a loser and have no life. When you get into your 20s know one is going to care who you slept with because everyone has a sexual past and part of being a mature adult is accepting that. There is so much more to real life then who a person slept with so stop feeling bad. Your biggiest priority right now if you are sexualy active is to make sure you do not get pregnant or get an std and become a statistic. Yea you are going to have sex but don't make sex your first prority like most of the dumbasses your age

Answer 2

Your not a slut, your just dumb. You should start thinking before you do something. I'm not trying to be rude at all, but you see how you feel disgusted with yourself now? Why do you think that is! Imagine what those guys think of you. None of those guys will ever look at you in a respectful way I can promise you that. From now on just make better decisions :)

Answer 3

Not at all. You're a young lady. That's what happens in life and being as people get married kinda late in life now you'll probably meet a lot of guys to do that with and it's universal (for straight, bi, and gay people).

Answer 4

slut

a woman who has many casual sexual partners.

You are NOT a slut. It was a one night stand, and you don't have sex with them anymore. YOU ARE NOT A SLUT

Answer 5

Not yet, but your're definitely working your way to it. Congratulations on your progress toward your goals.