Really into my personal trainer?

Question

Hi All
yes i am sure you have heard it all before. but heres my story.

I joined a gym new years resolution and all the rest and as part of that I had to do an induction, turns out the guy who took me on this was really cool and I was attracted to him. He is not your everyday drop dead gorgeous gym instructor bunny but there was just something about him. So a few weeks went on and i swear he was watching me at the gym (maybe i just have tickets on myself :) Anyway he has his own Personal Training programme through the gym so I contacted him and organised to do this.

We met at the gym last weekend to talk through the programme and things, i was a bit nervous around him but it all went well. Today i had my first session, I loved it!! was very hardcore in terms of intensity but I felt very comfortable with him and he helped me when I was struggling. We talked and stuff as it went on and seem to get along really well and have quite a few things to talk about and in common.. (I know trainers are paid to be nice to their clients) he asked me what i was doing in the weekend, more than once. I enjoyed the work out and plan on many more but as an added bonus i enjoyed his company too a little too much.

When i got to my car i looked at my phone and it had been 2 hours!! the workout was only meant to be for one, so i felt a little bad i had kept him for two hours- I didnt realise but we must of just ran over time. he gave me a sample of something to try which i did when i got home and I txed him to tell him thanks and that it was great. He replyed back straight away and we txted a couple of more times (just related to gym stuff) then the conversation kind of ended. I will continue my traning and this isnt affected by my feelings but i really feel like there could be something there and he is the type of guy I would love to get to know and spend more time with.

Where do I go from here? I dont think he has a girlfriend- but how do I know? and I am unsure if he would see his clients out of the gym and i dont want to be all full on. I am not in a rush and maybe need to get to know him a little bit better but in my mind also I feel like if he wanted to see me he would ask the question.

Also when i have been at the gym in the week he has always made sure to say hi and i have felt his eyes watching me (still could be me thinking this and him being nice)

Any advice? It is a bit of a prediciment but apparently quite common.. Imagine getting a great body and guy!!

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Don't make him lose his job, but send out as many vibes as you can. Maybe send a text off hours and see how responds. Something like "I'm bored, unmotivated, and in the neighborhood, wish I had some guy who knew what to do about that...."



See what happens from there.

Answer 3

At some gyms trainers can't date their clients. I'd be careful.

Answer 4

It depends primarily on how large he is trust me ducks are like mushrooms if you shoot a goat apples won't fall