girls, few things you didnt know about nice guys?

Question

1. Guys are more emotional then you think, if they loved you at one point, it'll take them a lot longer then you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.

2. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

3. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

4. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

5. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-he… method.

6. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

7. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

8. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

9. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

10. Girls are guys' weaknesses.

11. Guys are very open about themselves.

12. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

13. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

14. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

15. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful.If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot.

16. No matter how much some guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

17. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

18. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

19. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

20. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

21. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

22. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

23. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

24. When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don't say you aren't. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don't want you to disagree with them.

25.When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

26. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

27. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

28. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

29. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

30. A guy would give his right nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

31. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.

32. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of us.

33. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs.

34. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts.

35. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible. (read less)

Answer 1

some may not appreciate this but i do...thanks!

Answer 2

Wow, overly sentimental much? Who is this based on? I'm a nice guy, and most of these things seem contrived. I'm nothing like this list of points, if I were I doubt I'd have a good girlfriend.



"15. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful.If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot." Yeah that, or he just has a better vocabulary...



"30. A guy would give his right nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day." you can exchange the words "a girl" for "anyone's"



"10. Girls are guys' weaknesses" Hmm, I know some perfectly nice guys who would consider other guys to be their weakness...



"32. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of us." Don't try to appear *too* condescending...



"6. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to." Yeah, a selfish egotistical guy. Or a desperate guy. What's so bad about a girl having male friends she talks too? Surely it's better to let her talk to whoever she wants and show you trust her?



"22. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."" Hahaha, or, you know, he could be telling the truth... Honesty is a good trait too, y'know.



Did you copy-paste this from a chain email or something?

Answer 3

You have obviously been out with weak minded and push over type guys, and not with strong minded, assertive and know what they want type of guys, generalities are always unsafe regardless of what sex your speaking about, they are as safe as surveys, which is normally taken from a small percentage of people, and then saying that everyone is one way or another just to prove a point. The same could be said about women, and with some authority, but proves nothing. We are all different in every respect, and that goes for men or women. Everyone likes to feel that they are an authority on one subject or another because of their own experiences with the opposite sex, male or female, You may know the out lines of this subject, but not a lot about the real nitty gritty. Everything about the thirty five points mentioned, could be said for every women. But I`m sure someone will beg to differ !!!! Sorry.

Answer 4

Good post, I agree with most of those comments. A couple of other ones.



1. Guys arn't complicated, we try to keep things simple.



2. It takes longer for a guy to fall in love but it also takes longer for a guy to fall out of love.



I do agree, this might not be the place to post this, would have been a good blog though.



p.s Roar why are you so offended that he hasnt included gay men in his post. It clearly states what girls need to know about nice guys.

Answer 5

theres a fine line between being too nice and being a pushover. If a guy is too nice, especially when im being a jerk to him i lose all respect. Keep being the way you are...eventually you will also meet a nice girl and be happy.

Answer 6

36. Some have bad experience on the passionate side.

which i had to find out last night =/



More to the question however, why did you post this?

Answer 7

Thank-You !! I didnt know most of that !! He keeps telling me im sexy and i keep saying im not !! (That word woznt there ?) But i wil stop seyin tht so thnx !!x

Answer 8

Mkay.....so what's your question?