how to approach confident girls?

Question

i have a problem approaching beautiful and confident girls , i always feel they are going to laugh/make fun of me , its really stupid , how do i get over this , also girls do u really make fun of under confident guys??

Answer 1

be confident and don't take yourself so seriously, of course they're probably going to poke fun at you, and you should be a good sport about it... there is confidence in being a good sport. if you get all butt hurt then you look weak or like some kind of psycho

Answer 2

You need to act confident even if you don't feel that way! Trust me this will help you, and over time you will act "as if" you really feel that way. It takes practice, you can do it! Tell yourself you are good enough, and any woman would be lucky to have you. If you act that way others will start to believe it. Don't worry about the women having confidence - that is great. Work on your own self confidence and self-worth. Just don't turn into a cocky egotistical jerk, because that sucks and then people will laugh at you. Anyways, just build the courage by working on your own confidence. Good luck!!!

Answer 3

I'm a black girl and I love white guys and also have been approached by men of other races so I have some experience here. Just approach her in a respectful way and don't stereotype her. Would you like it if she stereotyped you? SHe is a woman and the only thing that is different is skin color. When approaching her don't mention race or get all hung up on the fact that she is black and you are white. I have had non black guys just come to me and ask me if I liked black guys and asked me about black women stereotypes as conversation starters to get my number. Its not very cute and is a huge turn off. Just walk up to the chick and shake her hand and ask her her name. And just talk to her like you would a white girl. If she rejects you move on and ask another girl you fancy. EDIT: Forgot to add DONT try to "act black" and say "yo yo baby whatsup". She will probably laugh. (but at you not with you) @MissUniverse: Just because a black girl doesnt wear Banana republic/abercrombie and fitch doesnt mean she is ghetto she just may have better fashion sense than that.

Answer 4

Girls just act confident so guys will talk to them. Like if i'm somewhere and i see a hot guy i would start acting confident. I am one of the"popular" people in school and i would actually feel flattered if an under confident guy approached me. Wait you shouldn't be under confident..gain some confidence ! if they girl denies you or makes fun of u she is just a stuck up ***** and you deserve bettter. Honestly i would rather a under confident guy than someone conceited and cocky.

Answer 5

Girls who make fun of under confident guys are either underconfident themselves or just horrible human beings. So don't worry about that. It's difficult putting yourself out there, I know. It's best to open with a question, simple but not generic, people like being engaged like that, but do it kind of in passing or over the shoulder, don't approach her head on, this will unconsciously turn her off because it is aggressive. Make sure you don't ignore the person/people she'd with either, she won't like that. Good luck!

Answer 6

You'll just have to act more confident than them. If you approach someone, don't act like you are inferior to her. You need to just step up and take control. Most girls like that. If a guy is under confident, I don't think most girls make fun of him, he just seems forgettable and not really someone who we see ourselves with. You just need to act like you're extremely confident and like you're even in control. Even if you don't really feel like this, pretending to can be convincing as well. It will at least help girls give you the time of day and get to know the real you.

Answer 7

i am a really confident girl and honestly i like it when guys approach me because then i feel that someone other than my really close friends wants to be my friend. like i love meeting new people and making more friends. so if your ever next to her just say hey and strike up a conversation. and she wont laugh at you is she does then she's a ( cuss word here). sorry but it's true. and just be more confident i used to be so Majorly not confident in myself and i'm more happy now that i'm more confident. and just be yourself!

Answer 8

Nope, i dont at least. I think that some of the sweetest guys end up being the ones who are a little less confident. Guys who are too confident are just cocky. You, just have to hold your head up high, and not worry rlly about what we think. If some girls laugh at you, they obviously dont see that your prlly a great guy, Dont let it bring you down, thats for sure. They just dont know what they are missing, thats all. Hope this helps. Best of luck

Answer 9

Make a pact with yourself that, one day a week, you will approach "beautiful/confident" women and speak to them until you have been rejected at least 5 times. You will find it easier to approach them in a couple weeks and also find you get rejected less and less. That presupposes you are not "approaching" them in a creepy way. If they should rebuff you, you can always say "Thank you, I only have 4 more to go". This might just intrigue them enough to ask what you mean, and then you have a conversation started.

Answer 10

call me weird but here is a stab at that one ( if they are going to make fun and laugh they are not as confident as you may think)



walk up to them and start a conversation don't over think yourself

try to be a friend first let the chips fall where they may!

Don't feel down and dumpy when and if they laugh remember they only make fun of you cause they aren't happy with who they are inside!

and No i don't and never did! any girl who does isn't confident and beauty that you see is only skin deep. IF all they worry about is outer beauty then there isn't anything inside and there fore you need to look else where!

Answer 11

Aww! No, we act confident so that guys like you will come and talk to us. So go for it! We appreciate guys who try to initiate conversations. Unless the girl is just a real b*tch then she's not gonna make fun of you. Good luck!!

Answer 12

no, we don't make fun of underconfident guys. WE think it's cute that a guy is shy, but not too shy.



Also, the way guys approach me (and it works!) is that they come by and start talking to me, and then when I'm really into th conversation, they ask me if I want to hang out sometime.



Like maybe you could ask her to talk to you at a coffeshop or walk home from school together one day?

Answer 13

you have to pretend that they are ugly and believe they can smell your insecurities a mile a way. I know ugly guys who are the center of attention because they are not afraid of what they are going to say and they keep their tone of voice loud and their body language is on top. Dont let anyone intimidate you and if it doesnt work out keep trying. Let them think what they want, but little by little they will know that you are self confident and nothing they would do will turn you down.

Answer 14

people are people man. just go make small talk about dont talk down about yourself.

CONFIDENCE is for those who believe in themselves. And chances are those so called CONFIDENT girls, aren't so confident. EVERYONE has insecurities. Even actors and actresses who are on national or worldwide televisions.

Answer 15

well you need to be confident too! show her that you know what you want and your not afraid to get it :] girls love confident guys because they are a challenge but also like me some girls like shy guys they think its cute just try working on your confidence :]

Answer 16

most of the time girls act confident, so guys will approach them.

Answer 17

Just go for it! Confident girls will like that you're confident enough to walk up to them. Just be yourself, and don't be to forward or cocky, that's what will make them laugh and diss you.

Answer 18

nope! confident girls like being approached. and i am quite confident (dont know about the beautiful bit) but i dont make fun of lads who arent as confident. its actually kinda sweet :)

Answer 19

be more confident. Believe in your self. They can also be your friends. For that matter all girls are good if you are good and confident.

Answer 20

Be you and if someone doesnt like you to bad for them. As far approaching simply tell them you noticed them and you wanted to say hi, its that easy ask a few questions not many see how they respond and if they dont, then there's your sign

Answer 21

Go For it if she likes you she will show it since she is confident and if she doesn't just move on



And no me and my friends don't because i dont like it

Answer 22

You just approach them, it's that simple. If you get laughed at and mocked, so be it.

As for your last question, well, I certainly make fun of them. I can't speak for everyone though.

Answer 23

girls try to act confident so a guy doesnt think she is a boring person. so if your nervous dont be because most of the time the girl will be just as nervous as you.

Answer 24

With confidence. Just remember YOU are the most important person in the world.



Treat them with respect and do not act stupid.

Answer 25

Many just act confident but under it all on the inside they are just as nervous as you are.

Just go for it because you never know what might happen. :)

Answer 26

being confident yourself is normally a good start, when that doesn't work, self deprecation works just as well. being funny is always a good thing. cracking jokes about how you thought she might laugh then you figured screw it and did it anyways. it shows you have the balls to talk to her.

Answer 27

you get over it by approaching the girl you like and being who you are. trying to impress i.e. faking it and be something you're not is irritating and you'll get laughed at and insulted.

Answer 28

dude,just tell them u have a crush on them. if they laugh their losers. also girls think under confident guys are sexy

Answer 29

Just go for it!!!!!!!!

girls always love when a guy has guts to come up and talk to her!

Answer 30

well i think its kinda cute.=]

and it really depends on the prson. not all people are exactally the same. even people that are alike have differences. so on that note, i cant help you with that one.=p

Answer 31

whip out your penis and swing it in a circular motion while walking towards her. trust me, im a doctor!