what should i do the next time he holds my hand?

Question

ok so the guy that i like held my hand on tuesday nigt it took me by surprise really. here how it goes. i was on my way to the office and i had to pass his office and on his office there was this girl coworker and while i was passing by she called me to ask me a question. the guy that i like wasnt there he was in the hallway and was on his way to the office. anyways i was talking to the girl coworker on the doorway i knew that my crush was behind me beacuse he was touching my lower back like in the middle. he is the only one who does this. i was talking to other coworker at the office and minutes later he held my hand. my right hand, was behind the doorway so they couldnt see my hand or his. i was really nervous his hand was warm. we are not dating or anything he asked for my number on sunday night and still hasnt called me. he is shy but i have noticed that he expresses his care with his actions not words like he would kiss my head, put his arm around my shoulder, holds my hand . we havent kiss yet so im guessing its soon right? i never had a boyfriend so i dont know what this is. im a naive girl. also i would like to hold my crush hand but were we work is always busy i want to hold his hand like he did with mine. what do you guys think also do u think with the things i have told you that anytime soon would i get a kiss from him or am i reading this too much so confused

Answer 1

I think you are confusing his shyness with his caution as employers do not like for their employees to have relationships as it tends to take time away from your work duties. He likes you as he wants to touch you, why he has not called you raised a red flag, Is he married ? You need to ask him out for lunch or coffee and get some insight into his intentions. His secretive hand holding could also be that he did not want anyone to catch him cheating on his wife.

I'm sorry if I made you more confused than you already are.

Answer 2

All right i think you overthinking this a little to much. Just take a deep breath and think a little bit. I'm not sure how old you are but it sounds like your at least out of high school. Think of it this way holding hands is a simple first sign of affection. He is showing intrest in you and he clearly knows your intrested in him. But this doesn't mean expect a kiss or to much just yet. Take things slow. Talk to him more to get to know him. Wait a while for him to ask you out if he doesn't ask you it is oaky to ask him after a couple of weeks. Don't be forward though it can be a bit intimadating (unless you know he wouldn't mind you doing so) go with something like "would you like to go to lunch with me?" or something simple not "would you like to go out with me."

GL. feel free to e-mail me if you have any more questions. it's [e-mail]

Answer 3

awww you sound like a girl in high school :].

but from what ive read damn straight he likes you! but you said he is shy so thats probally why its taking a while for him to make a big move. If yall want it to move forward then like after work or days off ask to go out for lunch or something and if he like him that bad then you make the first move, i bet you wont regret it.

I hope this helps :]]

Answer 4

You seem quite young in personality to me.. If you hadn't of said this was in the office at work, I would of assumed you were in your early teens. Nothing wrong with that, but as you said you do seem niave (in a nice way) and innocent.. In answer to your question.. Yes this guy likes you.. + yes he definitely wants a smooch :) good luck!

Answer 5

no predictions. All you can do his see what he does next. He holds your hands, next he might be



giving you hugs. Then kisses on his break. Going to your office and all ha ha. Good luck

Answer 6

im in similiar situation i really like this lad makes it his business to say hello smiles and winks at me and also grabs my hand when he can he has my number and only sent text messages for one night im mad about him but id love him to makea move so from now on going to try put extra effort in to get him ha

Answer 7

how old are you? you all sound like jr. high kids and this guy is messing with your head. If you're not dating why are you letting him play with your emotions??