I have a Crush on my doctor?

Question

I have this huge crush on my doc. He is my primary care physician..i am in my late twenties and he is in his mid forties.. i am married.. and he think he is also..
I want to take him out of my mind.. i love my husband and in no way i will ever hurt him...
But how can i make this doc go away from my mind.

In my physical examination, the way he touched, it was soft and gentle unlike doctor examination and he himself called me to tell the blood results. he asked me come back and see him(for medical condition).
Next meeting, i was already blushing and hardly could speak... In the end of session, he said" see you soon". Is it normal for doc to say "see you soon" even if you do not need to..
i emailed him some of concerns regarding health, he said he can not reply on email.. he said i should come and talk to him in person.. he could have easily reply to my questions on email. most doc does..again at the end of email he wrote " see you soon"
I am not sure if the feelings are mutual or not.. but i want to get rid of all his thoughts.. i have started paying more attention to my husband..
A part of my heart likes the attention... he is good doctor and diagnose a long disease and i don't want to lose him as a doc..
suggestions..

Answer 1

If he has any ethics as a doctor, he doesn't think of you as anything but a patient. If he did have feelings for you, he should tell you to go see another doctor so he could pursue you without being guilty about it.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Crush On My Doctor

Answer 4

My Female Doctor has done all of this lol ..I hope she isn't a lesbian o.O ..



I think you're reading way too much into this ..he's just doing his Job professionally and caring ..and no, it's not always practical to email you back ..that solely depends on what the issues are regarding your medical condition etc



I would strongly go against making any moves on your Doctor and change to a new one if it's this distracting .. it's illegal for a Dr to date their patients anyway .

Answer 5

I have this same thing going on with a female doctor....she drives me crazy, she will sit and talk to me forever in the little examination room, even shows me pics on her phone and I can't stop thinking about her....I am crazy *** head over hills nuts about her but she is married with kids....and I'm divorced and 10 years older than her....should I say something to her? she HAS to know what she does to me....but what if I say something and I'm just being stupid? then I would be so embarrassed I wouldn't be able to go see her anymore....lol....hmmmmm....what to do, what to doooooooo?

Answer 6

I used to have a crush on my doctor. He is no longer my doctor and has not been for the better part of a year. I honestly can't afford his medical services so it made the decision very easy for me to no longer have him as my doctor. I no longer have a crush...we have moved on to a mutual admiration for one another and it works for us. However, you are married so you need to stop, remember and respect your vows. I would never jeopardize a "sure thing" such as marriage for a fling or a crush. You shouldn't either.

Answer 7

Tell him you are married but you have these feelings for him, and that you need another doctor to avoid jeopradizing your marriage.

Answer 8

Touch HIM inappropriately.

Answer 9

you just have to realize that he is your doctor and you would be hurt if your husband was doing the same thing!! good luck!

Answer 10

give him a ride and then only you might stop being crushed on him.