I'm 16, should I get my girlfriend a promise ring?

Question

My and my girlfriend, we are both sixteen, have been together for three years. I do really love her, and I do hope to marry her someday. We have talked about being married, and what it would be like, how many children we would want, what their names would be, where we would live, etc. We both agreed that we would like to be married around age 23 no earlier, because of school. A lot of people in my family think we will end up getting married, and they treat her like a daughter. Should I get her a promise ring? I know she would really like it, because I know her inside and out. What do you think.

Answer 1

When I was 16, my boyfriend gave me a promise ring for our third year anniversary. Now I am 21, and he recently proposed to me. We are waiting to get married though, we also want to get married when we are 23 or 24. My only problem with the promise ring, is that now that I have my engagement ring, I still don't want to take the promise ring off. So right now, I am wearing both, but after we get married I can't wear my promise ring, then engagement ring, then wedding ring. Also sometimes people will bug her about wearing the promise ring. Because in high school people are immature.

Answer 2

When I turned 16, my boyfriend gave me a promise ring. I felt like he was really there for me and loved me with every inch of his being. Your story reminds me of my relationship. I'm now 17 going on 18 and I still plan on getting married in my early 20's. I know that she will probably cherish the ring, and every time she looks at she will think of the bright future she will have with you.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

I think it depends on the girl. For me, it was weird because he said it was a promise to be with me forever and that freaked me out. I was like 16 in the time and I was young and wanted to have fun not think of committing at such a young age. So it just depends on your girlfriend.

Answer 5

That's really sweet. I'm almost 16 and my boyfriend is 17. We've been together for awhile and have talked about the same things you and your girlfriend have. If I were your girlfriend, I would love it. It's very sweet of a boyfriend to do such a thing. I wish my boyfriend would get me one!!

Answer 6

I think you should go for it. It sounds like you have a good relationship with a future to it, and with a lot of good support from family. If it will make her happy and you mean it, I think it will be good.

Answer 7

thats nice...

well that depends if u rly want her to have a promise ring or not. im pretty sure she'll accept a promise ring from u. i think u should give her one but as i said in the beginning its ur choice if u want her to have a promise ring.

good luck :D

Answer 8

You're only 16. You should really wait and see if you still feel the same way about each other in a few more years.'



It's sweet, but... things could change.

Answer 9

even though 16 is really young it doesnt mean it cant be love. its rare but could totally happen. so if you're sure you want to be with her (even though you can't tell the future, you sound like you have a pretty solid idea of what you want) you should do it :)

Answer 10

Only if you are sure that you can keep that promise. At 16, I don't see how either of you could, but hey, good luck.

Answer 11

awww.

Yes i think you should.

It will show her that you are mature.

Good for you that you are saving it for marraige.

Personally I think its a great idea.

Kudos to you.

Your girlfreind will cherish this promise ring and im sure she will accept it with open arms.

GoodLuck.

Answer 12

sure you should. i mean you guys have talked about marriage and all that so if you are so serious you should cuz it will show her that you love her A LOT and that your taking the relationship seriously. good luck!!

Answer 13

yeah definitely. i think a promise ring is a great idea.

Answer 14

yea, i think she would be happy, don't listen to Kassie and NFL817, if you give her a promise ring, god will bless both of you i think ^^ beside, only guys who loves their gf will give promise ring :)

Answer 15

It's all up to you, you truely love her, if you think you'll be together forever, go for it. Seems like your family approves of her, i think it would be sweet.

Answer 16

yes, i think you should

im 17 and if i dated a guy for a few years,

i would want one,

it means a lot to a girl

to know that she is your one and only

so yes,

do it!

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Answer 17

i would say, hell no! but you sound like the conservative type so yea get her a promise ring

Answer 18

You should, but do not go all out and buy her a very expensive one.

Answer 19

its kind of up to you man. ask yourself. if you think it would be best then go for it. u said she would like it so, sure.

Answer 20

sure. but i think that she would keep her commitment even without it.

Answer 21

That would be very sweet.

Answer 22

that would be sweet you should do it. :) Good luck.

Answer 23

do it, its really sweet

Answer 24

I guess. lol.

Answer 25

No man, thats so gay.

Answer 26

**** no!