My b/f checked sms in my telephone..?

Question

I am really confuse.. need advise , please..
My b/f told me that week ago he check my sms..
As U assume , he did not like what he saw ..
( I hade some sms from my ex.. nothing special.. miss u bla..bla)
And of cause he did not like that.
But the main point for me here is - Why for hell he touch the tellefone! ??
Is it not a private ?
Even, he really apologise .. I just feel so angry.
Is it not good reason to brake up?
Can I trust to him??
Anyone been it the same situation?

Answer 1

All my BFs did the same thing..i s not right for him to disrecpect your privacy ,i definitely understand that,.

but to certain people when you guys are close, they think there shouldnt be any barriers or secrets in between..

Soemtimes i think everyone of us has our own space and of course we needed that space for some reasons..I do felt like i was choked when the relationships get to the serious point where he think there shouldnt be any secrets.

Nowadays hp are becoming our identity greater than the IC itself.There are private photos showing who we are, where we were,what we did and bla bla..then some Hp has calendar functions,body mass index and all ..so everyone kept their secret in their hp!!it may be an old flame number, pin numbers or address of purchased items,photos and etc..

i really felt violated when that happen..but this incident also showed that he cared about you and curious ,he needs to know all about you..perhaps setting some rules between you guys would be nice..

like if he cant touch ur hp ,then u will also not do the same..so on and so forth.

Answer 2

He must have had a reason to suspect that you are not being entirely honest with him. If there was nothing of any importance on there then you shouldn't have any issues with him looking, that's how I see it. My b/f can pick up my phone any time he likes and he'll never find anything on there, because i also respect him too much to do anything bad behind his back, maybe this guy is not right for you if you can't even respect him enough to cut off contact with your ex.

Answer 3

Well, you should have deleted all those sms's from your phone cos you were asking for disaster. If you don't want him to touch your fone, just tell him, maybe he didnt know how you felt. Its not a good reason to breakup with him. Just relax and lay your cards on the table. I checked my Boyfriends cell once and he was sending "I love U" messages to his ex. That was a good reason to break up.

Answer 4

basicaly he's done wrong.But this is not the reason 4 break up.it may be shows he Does care about u,and he's worry to loose u.

if u r not talking to him and he knows u r angry,give him some time so he come back to u.may be he invites u for a dinner in a fancy restorant.this is the best time u can talk to him and get to point that u dont like him to check ur cell.

if it does happen again ...think again about ur friendship...

I didnt say break up.think again

Answer 5

He is the jealous type or he doesn't trust you. You need to talk to him about how you really feel about this and come up with an agreement that each one of you is not allowed to check each others sms.

Answer 6

There must have been a reason that made him what to go into the sms hunt.

But if not, maybe thats just the way he is. But if your old b/f is still sending you messages, you sould put a stop to that. How would you like to know that his ex girlfriend was sending him stuff.

Be Cool about it. Its just something small.

Answer 7

Usually if they start going through your phone and things like that they either have something to hide themselves and their guilty conscious is eating at them, OR they have reason to believe that something is going on that shouldn't be. However, I would explain to him that the ex's texts mean nothing to you and if you think it will be a problem in the future put a password lock on your phone.

Answer 8

Checking your personal telephone, letters and so on could be the first sign of an abusive and controlling personality, who will try to tell you what to do.



If you want to give him a second chance, let him know you consider your telephone private and ask him not to touch it.



If he continues with this behaviour, then yes ... show him the door!

Answer 9

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Answer 10

Yea I have...

My ex bf went through my address book (cell phone) *he's my fiance`...we we're living together.

Erased some entrys and never told me

Read my txt msgs and went through my bills just to see whom have I called.

Btw those are the signs that the guy is insecure.

Sorry to say but no you can't trust him... He has broken the boundary...

Answer 11

The guy I'm seeing is really possive of his phone. One day, I took it from him and just went thru the phone book listings. He still has a few ex's #'s, which makes me wonder. I still have my suspicions. Why were you saving those msgs anyway? You should've know they were going to bite you in the a** when you least expect it. Delete. Delete. Delete. And explain to your guy that you're with him and him only. Unless.......

Answer 12

omg grow up. You sound like you're trying to find a reason to break up with him to be with your ex and you just don't know it yet.

Answer 13

from experience,you consider your phone private,yes ma b/f do that to me,he hides his phone from me.but to ma own surprise i lay ma hands on that phone oneday n he change ma name like(baby) to his ex no.and when his with me he change ma name to (baby),their is no course for alarm if he tourches your phone.unless you are trying to kick him out of the way.?

Answer 14

He obviously cares enough about you to want to check on you. Be grateful.

Answer 15

are you sure you love him, and is he sure he loves you?

love is about trusting, and not finding excuses tu break up. think about it