Older man, Younger Woman, Comments?

Question

I am in my early 40's, but I have thought of being with someone in thier early 20's, just want to know some comments, I have always wondered what a twenty year old felt like, see I am a touchy feely person, cause a womans body is a pleasure palace, just wandering..

Answer 1

That depends on how mature the woman in her 20's is. You could mess with her head pretty well. Look for youthful, fit women closer to your age.

Answer 2

I have to side with those that have no qualms with it. But also with those that said you have to be in a loving relationship: Not there just for the sex.



My lady and I have happily been together 5 years now and our age difference is greater than any mentioned in this post. We are lovers, best friends and soul mates. Yes, we have some differences, but what relationship doesn't? We do things together and we each have things we do alone or with similar age friends. But age, especially 'old age', is a state of mind. I know people my age that have decided they are now old and that's how they live their lives. They'll die soon, I suspect. I have other friends that think as I do that lead very active lives. They range from age 75 to 98. The 75 y/o man crosses the U.S. at least 6 times a year on his motorcycle. He also rides to all four corners of the country every year. The 98 y/o also still rides. Google Ardys Kellerman for another free spirit.



Don't let age difference be a big issue. Sure, there will always be someone that will look down on you, but that's their problem. Be happy. Enjoy life. It may be a one-time thing so don't let it go to waste: Be with the one you love and who loves you.

Answer 3

I couldn't tell you what it would be like to be with some one that age, except for you just remember back when you were that age and was with a girl your age. But on the other hand, I can give you comments we have ran into. I'm 32 and my husband is 40. I've always been told I look younger than what I am. We have two children, now 9 and 4. Not even three years ago, we went to a resteraunt and the lady who was seating us said to my husband, one adult and three children? We are a military family and lived in Italy a few years ago. This was before we had our 4 year old. I was on my lunch break and went to my husbands office to drop something off. A contractor that was in the office thought I was his child. So if you decide to date someone in their 20's, expect to get comments like that.

Answer 4

If you are like the majority of (adult) guys in the world, you already know what a 20-something feels like because you dated and fooled around with them when you were that age.



Middle aged and up guys I've known, who fooled around with 20-somethings, mostly said the sex was fun but there wasn't really anything else they had in common. You are talking about 2 people who are in really different places in life, different life experiences, different interests (probably), etc...basically, different generations.



If you want a 20-something toy to play with that's your deal. Make it clear to her that's what's going on though because people that age are still YOUNG adults, and the maturity doesn't tend to be there. She may think she's fallen "in love" with this great, mature, secure, older guy and all he's thinkin' about is braggin' to his buddies that he bagged a 'sweet young thing'.



Don't toy with someone else's emotions because you decided you want to see if a 20 something 'feels' the same to touch now as it did 20 yrs ago. Be straight about it...and if she's up for it then bonus plan. No bad karma.

Answer 5

Okay, now I'm going to turn it around, and give you an older woman's point of view. I'm in my early 50's and have always been with someone at least 15 years younger than myself. I'm just always attracted to and have alot of the same interests. I don't see anything wrong with that,either way and say you should go for it. Good Luck!

Answer 6

My husband is 10 years older then me. I think that is about the limit a person should have. If they are old enough to be your daughter then I say no. The reason why. You lived life and know more then she does about life. She still has to learn a lot. The sex would be great but that is all that you will like. She would get on your nerves because she will be a lot more immature then you.

Answer 7

Nothing wrong with wanting to be with someone you find attractive etc. Use common sense before engaging in any commitment with a younger person especially when you're 40 and she's in her 20ies. Unfortunately it does make a difference at some point depending where it's all going...

Answer 8

no! this age difference is a very very big one. Both of you probably have different interests and hobbies, also she probably doesnt want to be setttling down yet because she is only in her early 20's. You can not just like a girl who is 20 years younger than her cause she has a hot body.

Answer 9

As long as your happy, screw what everyone here thinks.

Although, more than likely, she will be rather immature but if you can look past that, then it really just falls back into whether you are happy.



I've never thought an "older"(30's/40's) guy reminded me of my dad.. but then my dad's turning 61 and I'm turning 18 so maybe my age limit is older then most :P haha

Answer 10

from the way you have written your question, you are not in love with this younger woman and you obviously just want to use her to find out "as you have said" to feel what she feels like, if it where a different case and you loved her and she loved you, then you wouldn't have even ask such a shallow question, on the slight off chance that you do have a gf this age and you do both love each other then yes a relationship with the age difference could last, but the way you have written your question it shows no respect for women and no respect for yourself.

Answer 11

well you are heading for a big let down.. first off not too many 20 year old will want to be with you cause your as old as there dad.. 2nd you won't have that much in common..and it will only end up with disapointment.. sound to me you have peter pan syndome..someone who doesn't want to grow up... try just remembering what is was like when you were 20.. that might help you out.. and they are too imature like to play head games...stay with someone your own age... and get over it..its just a fantacy.. not real...

Answer 12

I'm 36 and my girlfriend is 24.



But I'm not with her because she's young or for any sexual purposes.



There's a difference between a dirty old man and a nice older man.



You, my friend, are a dirty old man.

Answer 13

Age doesn't matter...it's just an illusion anyway so why should we base our relationships around it? people that don't like big age differences in dating are just scared cause they think its wrong..so go for it, as long as shes ok with it too...

Answer 14

don't you remember what a 20 yr old felt like when you were 20?

Answer 15

Sounds like you are in it for the sex aspect alone which is creepy. Women no matter their age are people, not some hole for you to get your jollies off.

Answer 16

it is said, men and horses are never old provided they are properly fed

Answer 17

Sick old man... get a life your pathetic

Answer 18

creepy...better hope you got some money or find a real weirdo!

Answer 19

ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww,that could only happen in your dreams!!!!!!!

other wise if she is a slut then no

you are pethetic

get a live!!!

Answer 20

you are going threw male menopause.

Answer 21

you are married or have childs?