pls help mee!! i realy need him in my lifee....GUYS PLS TELL ME WAT DOES HE MEAN??? GIRLS PLS HELP ME OUT/...?

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i am in a realtionship for around 2 years..n we love each otr so much...but now i moved to anothr place n i find it difficult witout seeing him and talking to him....he usd to talk to me n msg me often but now he doesnt even pick my calls...most of d time we hav fights but none affectd us..but few days bck i disturbd him durin exam tym n he dint pick my calls...now he is askin me time and space..he told me he doesnt wont to leave me but giv him time...is tis going to b brkup?? i really need himm!!...pls help me...how can i give him space?? i really love him...i now he cares me too orelse he wont msg me like "love shudlnt affect ur studies n behaviour" "be normal n talk to parents"etcc..but i cant stop talking to him?? how will i keep myslf busy?? i cant concentrate on anythin....feel like i lost my whole life..how will i get him bck? how can we survive our long distanc realtionship?

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he msgd me tat he doesnt wont to leave me but he needs sum tym n he told me he doesnt like anyotr girls...wat does he really want sum space or full brk up?? he told me he want sum tym witout communictn...how can i make myslf busy witout thinkin abt him?? pls help me coz my examz r cumin up n i dont wont to get distartcd!!...how can i get him bck? n aftr how many days shud i contatct him?? pls pls

Answer 1

Give him space then. Make HIM call YOU. More clingy you get the more space he will want. Its hard i know im in the same situation. Don't go a week though without talking to him. If anything just text him "hey".

Answer 2

Honey He Needs Guy Time '>___<

Dont Be Botherinq Him All The Damn Time ! That Will Turn Him Off And Eventually Brake Upp With Youu .

Just Call Him 2 Times A Day And If He Doesnt Answer Leave Hm A Sweet Messaqe

Keep Yourselff Entertained By meetinq New People New Fraands !

Join A Club Or Do Somethinq To Keep Youu From Disturbinq Him In His Space Across Town .

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Answer 3

i like totally understand your whole situation and its tough. ive been through the same battlefield and its really stressful. if he says he needs time, from personal experience, he is looking at the other people that are around because you are not there to look at every day. its hard to, but you have to face that he wakes up and knows you are not there to really hold him back. he is though probably holding onto you for convenience, because if he starts something up with somebody else and it fails, guess which softy he has to fall back on? you. because the fact that you flip over him and he knows i gives him a sense of "shes my fallback, shell take me without any consequence" either get some strictnes with him and brace for the "sink or swim" effect or think about cutting it off. and those txts where u think he cares, think of how easily those little sentence-long text messages swayed you into believing he cares just as much as before. you guys have history, he might be looking for a way out, but the txts play a role in the fallback girl plan. keeping you in as long as possible, or just as long as he needs....

Answer 4

If you love someone, you shouldn't have given him space all on his own. Men will easily learn to move on. If you want him, return to him or the next time you'll look he would be with someone. If he loves you he will make a move to be with you. If he doesn't something or someone is keeping him busy. If you want to forget him, just think of his bad traits.

Answer 5

Perhaps he is tired of your god awful English. Seriously, it is hard to read. He is leading you on, forget that asshole. Move on and quit whining that's the problem with the US now every one is too busy wining instead of moving on and solving problems. Take it from me when he says he isn't thinking of other girls he is thinking about and probably doing everything he sees. And your probably saying to your self right now "No he is not like that". Yes he is. You know the truth deep down. And all summed up in a brief sentence, he is leading you on and move on there is plenty of other ones out there and quit complaining.

Answer 6

Girl, can you type?!?! Give the guy the space he needs he isn't as intersted, because your not around anymore! Find someone else, you two have grown apart!

Answer 7

I'm sorry but it's over give up on him as he has his eyes on someone else.

Answer 8

Don't hang on him and don't waste your time MOVE ON