how do i get my bf to stop watching porn?

Question

how do i get my bf to stop watching porn?

Answer 1

I think you are way over reacting. Every guy you date will have a collection of porn. Consider this - would you rather him watch porn, or be screwing other chicks?

Answer 2

well, that probably could have done with some full stops and commas in there...



it sounds to me like you wont be able to get him to stop. you should either accept him as he is or break up with him.

Answer 3

Watching porn is totally normal for guys to do. Asking them to stop is like asking girls to not paint their nails or not do their hair. Don't worry about it... it's totally normal and healthy.

Answer 4

If you break up with him make sure you delete all those videos and pics or you are gonna be on the internet. As far as your boyfriend goes .. you already asked him to stop and he said no. What else can you do.

Answer 5

Jesus Christ; you lost me after you said the word 'porn'.

Answer 6

Guys watch porn. There ain't no stopin it.

Answer 7

Ok, first off, learn to use a full stop. Jesus Christ...



Now onto the question. You don't stop him. Nto by asking, at least. He is a guy, he gets randy. He wants to feel a little naughty, and he has such a sex drive that he wants to go at it again after half an hour.

There is no way of you stopping that. If he gets bored, he'll watch some porn.



Twice a week is RARE, for most guys. Be happy he ony does it then.

The reason he likes porn is because it's FRESH, and not the same like sex with you or watching the porn you made.

It gets him off quickly and relieves his stress, and he can do it alone, his way. Think of it like reading a book rather than talking to you. Sometimes we just want to do things on our own.



He doesn't care about the women in the porn, just like you don't really care any more about edward from twilight. It's just a random fantasy. Would you rather he actually went out and banged other chicks?



I suggest you tell him you're going to stop having sex with him until he stops porn, if you really want to know how he feels about it. Or at least tell him to do it when you're not around, for the same deal.



He sounds like a bit of a ***** though. Watching porn with you around is a bit of a no no, and if he ignored you while you were crying, either you cry a lot or he's a bit of a *****. I would stop, if my girlfriend asked me to, but I'm not as much of a dog as this guy, so there we go.

Answer 8

There are these things that were invented for a reason; they're called punctuation marks. Take it easy with the run-on sentence there bub.



Dudes like porn, get used to it. Could just be a sex addict, or you might just suck in bed.

Answer 9

You can't.

All guys watch porn, it's normal.

Would you rather him jack off to someone else in real life than one he'll never actually meet?

It's really not that big of a deal, and considering he only does it every now and then makes it even less of a deal.

Answer 10

well...he is a guy. hes never going to stop watching it. he may think you are hot but other girls are out to. he needs to see other naked bodies besides you. he thinks that you are hot and are the girls in the pron. the diffference is that he cares for you. respect what he does.

Answer 11

he sounds like a total d bag.



babe

take him to some therapy. hes hooked on porn.



he should be lucky that you even let him make a porn with you.

let alone be able to still watch porn while going out with you.



OR

your gonna have to do some different stuff, sexually i mean.



but ethier way, you sound like the best f*cking girlfriend in the world.

Answer 12

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Answer 13

It sounds like he has an addiction to porn, yes, it is a real thing. Be careful giving him nude pics and making videos with him because they will almost certainly end up on the internet and I might use them later (sorry, it's true).



Guys like variety, I can understand why he might want to look at porn other than the one that you made, but if he prefers porn to being with you, then there is a real problem. All I can say is that you should talk about it. Ask him what you can do to get him to stop. Maybe even try watching porn with him, if you're into it, you sound pretty open minded about it.



Don't try even more to distract him from more, it's like giving a dog a treat for taking a dump on the carpet, pardon my language. If anything reduce what you're willing to try, while I don't think withholding sex is healthy it might send him a message. If he prefers pron to you, then you might be better off finding a new guy, assuming it bothers you. If it doesn't bother you, then get more involved in it, just be careful of any pictures or videos, because they will most likely end up on the internet and someone you know will see them. He might enjoy taking pictures with you and posting them on NewbieNudes.com, if you're comfortable with it then just keep your face out of the picture. Also, you better be 18 or older.



If you're having sex with him 5 or 6 times before getting your day started and he isn't satisfied, then there is a real problem.



Be careful and safe, and use your best judgement. I hope I have been helpful.

Answer 14

He is NEVER going to stop looking at porn.



If you think he will stop, please do not think that way. He won't. He gets off on it. He loves it. So, he will not stop.



You need to figure out why you are with a guy who will put porn above you ?



If you want a guy who does not look at porn, then you need a new guy.



He will never stop looking at porn. You could have sex with him 9 million times a day. You could give him a milliion BJs a day.



He would still look at porn. It has nothing to do with you.



So my advice - either get used to the fact that he will always have porn in his life or get another boyfriend.



Also, do not lower yourself to his level and get involved in porn just to see if he will stop the porn. He will not.



Make sure you erase all naked pictures of you incase he gets mean.



Peace.

Answer 15

Oh my god. Its just porn. Get over it. Its not like he can cheat on you with the girls in the playboy mag or whatever he is looking at. All guys look at porn rather they have a girlfriend or not.

You have sex with him 5 or 6 times before he goes to work? Wow so this porn he is looking at obviously isn't affecting your sex life. So, what is the problem?

You sound really immature and you need to use punctuation because this has to be the longest run-on sentence I have ever read.

Give him space and let him be himself or he is going to leave you.

Answer 16

Believe it not, that is RELAXED porn use for me. Men average masturbating once a day. Doctors advise one ejaculation a day. But if you could eat all the chocolate you wanted and didn't gain weight, you'd eat it all the time right? This is the same thing, as a guy you can have tons of orgasms a day.



Sex is different for men, he isn't emotionally involved with the men he is masturbating too. The closest comparison I can make is like food. Let's say you are pizza. He loves pizza, can eat it everyday it's his favorite food. However, sometimes you would like to eat a salad or something new. He doesn't think anything less of pizza, and changing up what he eats allows for pizza never to get boring. He wants to be with you, he likes you. But he has this drive, this hunger that needs to fed. You understand that he has a large sex drive, but you have to realize that it needs variation. It just does.



It would be great if there were men that didn't masturbate to women other than their girlfriends. But those men don't exist. They would have to be messed up in the head, like stalking their gf to have that much sexual energy towards them. Finding a guy that doesn't masturbate would be like finding a unicorn, it's not worth your time chasing one.



Here is a question I would like to ask you. Why does it bother you so much? he is with you, he is happy with you. You have emotional needs that he can't service, that is why you have friends/family. This is a need of his that you can't service, and really it's a burden off your back. You can have sex with him whenever you want, and he can jerk it anytime you don't want it.



In short, he likes you. He likes having sex with you. He needs this to balance his chemistry. It's normal, it's healthy and your boy friends are always going to do it. You might as well get used to it.

Answer 17

All guys do this. It doesn't he mean he doesn't love you...doesn't mean you aren't sexy to him...just that they have addtional needs and desires for release. Its quite normal so don't be jealous of some video. Some guys just like to see something different, not the same video they know over and over again. Again it is just how they are and shouldn't offend you. You think this is all about you when its totally not so just let it go. Its not hurting you, not hurting your relationship, and if you let him have a little freedom, he'll love you MORE for it. Also, just FYI...its really really hard to read one really long run on sentence...would be great if you could use some periods next time :)

Answer 18

Hi



You should NEVER in a steady relationship be with a man that gets turned on by other girls and not you!

You should be with a guy that gets turned on by you!

Sad to say but he is using you...He is horny pervert and you should leave him as soon as possible sex is not everything in life you can go a few moths without sex if need be to find someone whom finds you sexually attractive..

I know it sux having to deal with the fact that the guy you´re in love with doesn´t find you sexually appealing but not every guy in the world would if you know what I mean...

And the fact that you say he gets angry if you talk about it and he refuses to stop this behaviour will only lead to violence later...

Men loose their respect for women whom they know know that they are not the high light of their erection and orgasm...He says to you that he thinks of you at the end to keep you there by his side....Don´t believe him..

You are like he´s rubber doll there are no true feelings involved..

Be well and find someone whom loves you or at least gets turned on by the sight of you and that that is the reason he orgasms too!!

Answer 19

He's a sex addict and is addicted to porn and you begging him to stop won't make him stop because he doesn't want to. Compare it to a drug or alcohol addiction. Stop making porn with him and don't aid or abet him anymore Tell him he has a serious issue and you don't want to waste your life with him and his addiction and it is ruining your relationship. Offer to help him get counseling or get him to go to a sexual addiction anonymous group. If he won't go, leave him.

Answer 20

Watch it with him and go on and on about the guys until it drives him nuts. Look at that huge penis! Don't see stuff like that too often. He is soooo hot. What a lover! Whatever.

Answer 21

Ha. I didn't even read all of this, but bottom line: guys watch porn. The sooner you accept this and move on, the better your life and relationships will be. It's not cheating. It's not that you aren't 'doing it for them.' It's just what they do.



If you give him an ultimatum, or tell him to stop, all you will do is having a lying boyfriend on your hands.

Answer 22

you cant get him to stop watching porn its impossible

Answer 23

make a porn movie he won't watch yours

Answer 24

ok 2 things 1 you are the best ******* girlfriend ever 2 try role play because hes probably using porn so he docent have a want to cheat because he is mixing it up already so it may be a good thing

Answer 25

dude he's a man they watch porn get over it its not really a big issue.Maybe he's not interested anymore.I dont no im no person who helps people with their 'sex problems' :D don't mean to be rude.

Answer 26

Tell him if he doesnt stop you will not give him some,and every time he watches porn dont make love to him.

Answer 27

Steak, blowjobs and love. Thrice daily.



Or you could try something a little easier - like swimming in lava.

Answer 28

maybe he is a sex Addict and needs help he sound like one of the guys off tv with dr. drew have you ever thought about that

Answer 29

WOW! OMG what a lucky bf.... hes dumb. or just really horny i guess.. hes prolly like one of those really sad and pathetic ppl on true life " im addicted to porn.

theres no help for them :X

Answer 30

You don't. That would be cruel, unnatural, unreasonable and impossible. All guys look at porn. Nothing to worry about. Relax.

Answer 31

thats one thing guys cant help dont push him he loves you not the ****** pornstar he doesnt want to **** the pornstar she probably has aids or herpes or somethin he just needs it just try to ignore it

Answer 32

He doesn't love you : (

If he cared one bit, he would stop.

Or at least try.

You're wasting your time with a perv : l

He is a jerk.

Stop kissing butt to that biiii !!tch

Answer 33

You need to work on your grammar, spelling, sentence structure and punctuation.

Answer 34

wow...... you should dump his but and get a more respectfull bf and he probly isnt going to stop...

Answer 35

Start purposely watching it when you know he will walk in and see you doing it. Then mayb hell understand and stop. :)

Answer 36

bjs twice a day should suffice

Answer 37

only him can make the choice to stop ...... you can only talk to him about it and convince him to stop .



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Answer 38

threaten him say you'll break up with him if he don't stop watching porn you have to be tough with your men sometimes.

Answer 39

leave him

Answer 40

I LOL'D.

Answer 41

damn, he's messed up...