Does this relationship seem ... I don't know ... Seem Okay?

Question

Okay so here's the L/D on me and Stephen.
Me, 16. 17 in June. Trainee police officer, Hairdresser, Beauty Therapist and Fashion Designer. (Yep Im a busy girl)
Stephen, 15. 16 in April. Still at school. Doing his exams. Also wants to become a police officer.
Indie/scene.
Want pictures ask but I don't think they are relevant.
Okay we met in August 2007. Have been crazy close since then. Like best friends. He asked me out and I said no. Around about December 2007 I started to like him but adored my boyfriend that I was with so I didn't act upon it. Throughout 2008 we continued o like each other but out of fear or ruining our friendship said nothing. Until New Years when his best friend and my best friend both made us sit face to face and admit we have strong feelings for each other and would be great for each other. So since New Years Day we have been solid. I adore him, I really do. I always have and I have allot of respect for him as he does for me.
He has had 2 sexual partners (including me) The first was a drunken mistake.
I have had 6 (including him).
We often have sex but we also love being with each other ... We like to just like snuggle!
And for the past 3 weeks sex hasnt been in his mind at all ... Mine slightly but I enjoy the fact that hes confortable to just chill with me.
At the moment I only get to see him once a week.
My relationship befor him ended because of that very reason... But I only ended it because Stephen told me that seeing somebody once a week isn't a relationship.
I understand that he has to study allot right now as his exams are in May.
His big sister has just had a baby that is three months premature and has been in hspital 3 weeks before finally delivering baby Aiden last Tuesday.
I love spending time with him and about a month ago he told me that he had fallen for me like he had never fallen for anyone before and felt like I was more than just a girlfriend, a teenage fling. That I was his best friend.
I have mentiond the whole ... Can we see each other more thing and he said he would try his best but times are hard at th moment as he is also getting a **** load of training practices at his football team so hes there 3 nights a week. Has to study when not in school plus homework. Has to visit the baby as he is in intensive care. It;s just a bit hecktic at the moment.
His birthday is coming up and I have bought him this £20 tshirt online that he really likes and a popart picture of Josh Franchesci his total idol (some picture that has 6 pictures of Josh in 6 different colours) which was £30 and a set of 16 different flavoured condoms, massage oil and I'm getting him some chocolate.

Does this sound like an okay relationship. I'm just worrying because I really adore Stephen to absolute pieces. I just want to know from a guys point of view... And girls... What I can do to make our relationship better?

I'll try anything!
I just want to make him as happy as he makes me.

Answer 1

don't worry, you're both o.k. Just be patient, loving and understanding and everything should turn out fine. Things do happen, as long as you have him and he has you, you can help each other.

Answer 2

a 15 twelve months old boy well-knownshows out a lady likes him in extreme college and says he would not like you decrease back is fairly shady...yet in spite of the undeniable fact that if he hasn't had a female friend then it would want to easily be shyness. possibly he's terrified of his first kiss. I under no circumstances kissed a guy until eventually 10th grade because i replaced into afraid I sucked at kissing lol. i imagine you should attend until eventually he procedures you or perhaps as he's sturdy and prepared. he's probably merely frightened in the front of his and your associates. If he likes you he gained't enable you to bypass, yet when not he probably will under no circumstances confront you that he would not. in case you shop telling him you want him you're gong to scare him away and look clingy. by capacity of how, did you textual content him yet? in case you probably did, what did he say? EDIT: nicely enable us know what takes position because i'm truly curious lol. :)

Answer 3

You both will be fine. Im 16 and my boyfriend is 17 going on 18. We've been together almost 3 years and we've had our rough patchs, ups and downs and we are still going strong like day one. Theres only one problem would be the 'cheating' aspect. Unless both you and your boyfriend are both completely fine, and over it, then it will be fine. But you both are just going through a rough patch and very busy. Both of you will be out in no time. Trust Me.