where can teenagers have sex?

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My boyfriend and I are both 16 and we have been talking about sex for a while now. We know about safe sex I'm already on the pill and he's got condoms, but I need to know where we can do it. one of my parents are always home so it's a no at my house and my boyfriends house is okay because at time they aren't there but how can I have my parents let me go to his house without his parents there? And is there other places we can go? I don't know anyone who is older then 18 to rent a room for me and him. Please help with this. And don't tell me not to do it. I already know that there are some risks but we love each other so much and we've been together for 2 years now.

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okay have sex wherever you want but this will be your life if you make the slightest mistake.

he will bang your brains out.

Some **** will go wrong and you'd either get aids, herpes or get pregnant. Let's just say you do get pregnant.

He will dump you and the baby.

You will have to tell your parents what happened (that never ends well).

You will be made fun of at school and being called a slut and all that etc.

You won't be able to take care of the baby on your own so you'll have to live with your parents for a long time.

You won't get another boyfriend or get married because well you have a baby (if not a sexually transmitted disease that won't kill you so you'll be lucky to be alive by this point!)

You'll be too busy with the baby that your education will go down the drain with all your hopes and dreams.

In summary if something goes wrong your either gonna die, get itchy or f*** up your life. What ever decision you take...Have fun! :)

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okay first of all, It bothers me how so many people are trying to convince you not to do it. Don't listen to them, it is your body and you can make your decisions for yourself. You are already on the pill and he is going to use condoms, as long as you're safe and are aware of the risks I don't see a problem.



public restrooms are always easily accessible, but I wouldn't want to lose my virginity next to a toilet...but thats just me. You could go in a car, it might be a little bit cramped though.



I would say that your boyfriends house is your best bet, you could tell your parents that you're going to spend the night at a friends house, or that you're going to your boyfriends house and his parents will be there. If your parents are the type of parents to call the friends parents, go to your boyfriends house first, have sex (it won't last long, trust me) and then go to your friends house afterwards. That way if your parents call your friends parents then they actually can say that you were there.

Or, you could just say that you and your boyfriend are going to go out and get lunch or something and then instead of going out to lunch and can go to his house.

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So what if you have been together for two years? You're 16 years old!!! You plan on taking care of a baby at that age? Do you realize how your life will change if you have sex? So what if you really love this guy? I was in love with my boyfriend when we first dated. I feel in love with him on our second date. Within a month he asked me to marry him. I stuck to my guns and told him we needed to wait until we had been dating for two years. We both were in our late 20's at the time. You know what? We waited to get married and we waited to have sex until after we were married?



I went to high school with girls who had kids at age 16. Now, these girls are in there 30's with teenagers. Do you want to have child now? You can go on the pill but it can always backfire on you. Condoms don't always work either.



I think you both should grow up and finish school before doing such a stupid act. You are a kid!!! Finish being a kid first!!!

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Screw the other opinions. You're 16. You know the risks, and you're willing to take them with someone you love. It's not like you don't know what you're doing.



If you don't mind it publicly, when I walked my dogs a few weeks ago, I found a very small secluded patch of land surrounded by trees. I thought to myself "Hmm, if I was to put a few blankets out here, and the night sky would make a very romantic place for lovemaking."



If you don't mind doing it outside, if you can find a similar spot at night there's really not that much of a chance of someone finding you out there. It's always just a suggestion.

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If your 100% that your both ready to have sex then great. Just be careful, and if you have been together for 2 years and your parents get on well with your boyfriend just tell them that your going round his, your parents don't need to no that his parents aren't there. Good luck and be safe

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I cant say don't have sex at 16 because you still do it anyways. Be careful on the birthcontrol pill. I got pregnant on it. I miss a day then other day . Itwas horrible. I recommend you the depo shot . You have no periods and you can do it no condom. Will not get pregnant. Make sure ya both are clean.Just a suggestion.



I use to do it at a apartment complex parking lot at night. Even daytime at a empty park that noonegoes to. Just be careful @ . If cops find you will be embarrassed and give u a ticket just like my friend lol

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One option is in the car. Just find somewhere to park that is secluded and do it. I live in nc and my bf still lives at home (although we r both over 20) so we drive up in the woods or whatever. But he's got a nice truck so we can do that :P 4x4!!!!

Lol when I was a teen my bf used to sneak over in the middle of the night and we would do it in the basement. We were lucky enough to not get caught and it gives u a rush :)

Wouldn't wanna be caught tho :(

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There are a variety of places where you can go and have sex with him. Public restrooms are easy and accessible, you just have to not mind about people walking in a knowing what you are up to. Other options are parks with trees and bushes, wooded areas. Alleys or behind business buildings that are closed. If you know of building sites then they are good locations.

Basically just walk around your local area with him and find secluded areas that you think you could do it. You just have to accept that unless you have sex in a bedroom, it's not likely to be romantic so you might regret in the future that the way you lost your virginity wasn't ideal.

Good luck with it.

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Are you kidding me you aint ready..... At that age you should be asking questions about school wise like where is the best place to study or something or what university would be best for me.... Why this generation so naive Im 20 and I dont even think about all that yet lol.... Hun id say focus on school make something out of your life so you wont have to depend on a guy if you do get dumped or if something does go wrong.. Your parents dont want you by yourself with him for a reason they know whats best for you ...... You cant be that desperate you got to wait still ...... Your still young youll still have a lot to experiece , How about you start making smarter choices........ I mean really???? You think your gonna stay with that guy for ever and ever?? like seriously .....Im sorry if im rambling on and on, it just sucks that people make such stupid mistakes now in days wish I could knock some sense into yall...... Hope all goes well and hope you really do refrain from that and think about other things that will actually help you for your future..... Hope all goes well.....

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I don't recommend going behind your parent's backs because there is always the chance of failure, even on the pill. But PSA aside, I know my bf and I did it a lot in JC Penney fitting rooms, also in cars in mall parking structures, and other "public" places that you can sneak a private moment without cameras. Be creative! It makes for great memories later.

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Its risky but when I was a teen we did it anywhere.....in public restrooms, baseball field, his car etc . Tell ur parents you are going to a friends house. Dont say boyfriend, they weren't born yesterday. Good for you about birth.control. I didn't have it and was pregnant by 15, had a daughter by 16. Stay safe.

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Aaah girl if got pregnant or had a virus he will dich you and throw you like a dog, dont tell me no he is not like this , men are like this

Condoms pills all of those are bull**** it is not 100% safe so don't do it just be patient for few years and marry that guy , if he really love you he would marry you right ??? its safer for you and him





Dont make something you will be regret at

Don't look for today look for tomorrow

That is my advice for you

am a teen like you and I had similar problems and this is how I have deal with my problems

Trust me you dont wanna loose that guy and you dont want him to brake your heart

Dont destroy your life, being a pregnant teen is HARD

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If you both truly want to play the game, Finding a place where you choose is really not the hardest part. Finding the courage of where you find the place is. In my own thought like-it or not only 16yrs will not get you and a mate anywhere that easy. Wait a little longer for One of Two reasons, wanting a far more urge to play the game and two when the time comes both you and your mate will have a stronger urge, and will make game more pleasurable.

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oh how great of a time to be 16 and think you know what love is

ill tell you where you can do it but you better no be shocked the minutes he gets it in, he leaves



so you can have sex in one of yalls car

just tell your parents you are gonna hang at his house they dont need to know parents arent there

if you have a really good friend that will let you use her house then do that

or you can go somewhere private and secluded like the woods by the lake or something like that, you can do it there on a blanket

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It depends on what type of sex you want to have. You could just have sex outside behind a house. Some people get a kick out of that. A lot of people in your age group end up having sex in the backseat of a car. Other options would be to have sex at a friends house with the friends permission. Another options is to go to a party that someone is throwing and taking up a room...

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You should be free to make a decision like that without having to worry about were and when. I think if your going to do it plan it with flare and romance. If he has a car, grab some blankets ans spend the night at a beach. Go camping and use a tent with lots of padding on the floor. The decision is yours, do you want to hide and have crappy sex for a few minutes or do you want to have a complete night out filled of romance. I'm twice your age and still want to be romanced when ever my boyfriend wants to do anything. He takes me out for dinner, some where nice. Then he takes me for a stroll in the park were we talk about things that make us happy. After, he takes me back to our place and massages my back while soothing music plays.... Like I said, do you want a crappy night or an epic night? Make him do all the planning and romantic things. It will be worth the trouble of loosing your virginity to someone who made a huge effort to give you everything you hoped for.

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Wow, it almost seem like contributing to underage sex by suggesting where one should do it. Talk to your parents about sex, honesty is really good for family... yep. it will freak you out to talk with them but your going to get the best answers from it... talk to the moms and stay away from the dad. I'd lock you up and not let u out till you were 18 if you were my daughter..,, just saying.. ahaha

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I'm not trying to insult you but if you have to worry if your parents are going to let you go to his house you're probably too young. But you can always say you're going to a friends house or something if you really insist on doing it

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Do not have sex at the age of 16 please. You are too young and at least be in a relationship with him for 2+ years.



Also you are too young to know what love is, but I advise you to wait for that person you truly love. It is amazing and worth the wait, not only that but you will respect yourself better if you have sex with one person you love and want to share the experience with instead of many. Plus you are in high school I believe and rumors spread like a disease so do not do it.

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forest. Have a nice, romantic picnic, and get um...freaky. I guess, lol. Good for you both for being mature about it. If you ever feel uncomfortable, it's okay to put it off until later. But beware: change a relationship juristically whether negative or positive.

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The best place is to sit in the public park & just dream of having sex. It is not good at this stage to have sex. Why r u so desperate to have sex. In place of that u just have talk with him on various subjects. Discuss many more subjects. Kindly drop the idea of physical sex at this point.

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You talked about sex, youve ruined the moment, the feel and all the excitement

Enjoy DOUBLE awkward 1 minute 30 seconds of urmm ok...

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You don't need to have sex.

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Gwen, there is a lot of pleasure in touching, and even oral is possible in a little bit of privacy. That can keep things interesting until a time you finally get a room for a few hours.

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Just wait until after you're married!

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You don't need to have sex.

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are prepared to be a mother at 16 and fully dedicate your entire life to child you can forget about college I guess you better hope mcdonalds starts pays 15.00 an soon remember you have diapers and formula to buy



please don't throw away your future for ten minutes of fun it will wait

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Where there is a will there is a way.......outdoor sex is good if u have a very private place..........a friends house who is liberal............I say oral sex might be best.........as there is no chance of an unwanted child.....and as they say safe sex is best......I would like to say wait till u r older but that is probably going by the wayside...............good luck and be careful....................

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Just go to the local sex-eteria

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Plan on how and when you will get pregnant, first, because that's what sex is for!

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above 18

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no sex

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no sex

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no sex

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no sex

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no sex

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sounds like peter has had a couple of these things happen to him :))) as long as your smart and safe your good because tbh sex is ******* bomb theres a reasons why theres so many people on this world and we are over populated...

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Don't go having sex outside or in a public place it isn't safe have sex in a safe place, because you cant have sex at your house your best bet is to have sex at his house. How would you parents know if his parents are home or not? just tell them you are going out with a friend or that you and your boyfriend are going out for a walk just make sure you use protection you have sex in a safe place and that you are 100% ready for it.

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you don't need it

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the local park?

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in the room, or in the parking lott

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do it outside on a park bench so all the children can see it happening

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You looks fairly knowledgeable about safe sex but you have still not reached the correct age to put that knowledge into practice . Wait for another 2 years till you are 18 and enjoy sex. Sex is nice but dangerous at the same time if you do it at the wrong place and at the wrong time.If the parents come to know you can loose your BF.

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NO SEX

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public restroom, park etc.

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no sex

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Hotel, but don't

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high school

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In a car...? But be careful when you're that young.

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I think the same would apply that applies for adults. You can do it in the butt or the front.

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Car, Abandoned house, woods, beach, yard, shed, friends house, bring blanket and towel if its outside good luck and have a good time your gonna look back on it when your older so make sure it's memorable.

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focus on studies

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are u for real !!!!!. just think hes pounding ur brains out , both of u are on the edge climaxing then he cums but opps!!! the rubber breaks .....now what ? think about it before u do it is this really the one u want to spend ur whole life with ??

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You can have sex wherever you want, just note that if you're caught in public you can be charged with multiple fines including Indecent Exposure.

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At one of your houses.

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its good to know about it but to wait for a man to say a true i love you first

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NO SEX

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grow up. #pls

focus on ur career bruh lmao

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Okay these people are dumb for telling you not to because you are a teenager. Sex happens. I'm considered too young as well but I love it. But anyway, if you can get home alone thats the best. But a car in an isolated area is okay, outside is pretty fun. Anywhere that it's private let loose and have fun! You're being safe about it and that's all anyone could ask for. You could go to a movie no one wants to see and if no one is in there go ahead lol. Mall bathrooms or changing rooms. Just make sure no one else sees.

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I would say in a car. If one of you has a car then all you need is a time to do it at. And don't listen to these people who are saying don't do it-make your own choice, be safe, and have fun with it. Sex is a beautiful thing and if you two are ready, go for it kiddo!

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Personally, I think that if you can't find a place to have sex, then you shouldn't do it. I mean if you're desperate you can always go to a park, or do it in a car, but that's no fun. But really, I think if this boy can't offer you at least a bed then you shouldn't do it because on the off chance if something did go wrong I don't think you're prepared to deal with it. I know you love him, and want to feel the closest to him as possible, but if you've already waited 2 years, whats 2 more?

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wow. you're 16. that's still a baby. in 5 years you won't be together I promise. you'll even wish you would have waited. so stupid.

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NO SEX

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no sex

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in a classroom in front of the teachers that really turns them on

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McDonalds. Very sensual place.

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high school

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Somewhere sanitary- that's for sure. Don't do it in the back of a car- lol, i mean, that doesn't really make ur love significant now does it

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just do it any where u can i did it on the interstate once.by the road at 4oclock in the morning.

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NO SEX

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You can use car for sex. Drive away from city and have fun in car. Other option may be renting room by showing age of 18+.

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You are 16 clearly you should have had sex already! But its okay your just a late bloomer, nothing wrong with that! Now you did to go **** that boyfriend of yours. Quit waiting. The first step is to talk to the boy and make sure you are both into it. Lets continue... figure out where you are going to have sex. The best place is usually your parents bed. If that is not a possibility then a siblings bed works just as well. Just not it your own bed because then you would have laundry after. Since you cant perform the dirty at your house or his you should find somewhere in public. Most people prefer either a park bench or picnic table. Try not to do it in the presense of young children. The most common place for teenagers to have sex is the ball pit in McDonalds at around 2:00am. Make sure he buys you a six piece chicken nugget first. The best way to ease the nerves is a few shots of fireball. Now that you have a place to have sex... lets get to the sex part. the best part. never spit, always swallow, gulp it like chocolate milk. nip the sac...he loves it. t

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I didn't have sex until I was 19, and in college (so there you have it, it was in my boyfriends single dorm room) but I suppose you crazy kids could do it in the car.

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14 male,

13 female ,

as ancient romans,

of course at home

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Go to Sears. Find the toilet isle and just go crazy! If not, then go to a public bathroom, with a nice porcelain toilet, and get freaky!!

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You don't need to have sex.

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Well my little sweet you to can use my room i will be there to coach you and will provide any hands on duty i will take mt cock and cores e your inner thigh before i slip it in

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A GREAT place for you to have sex is in the future... after you say "I do" and all the guests are gone.

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Your really young, im older than you and i waited, you dont want to regret something like this

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Either of you drive? Car sex works (;

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***** you too young for the sexuals. you need to stick with them handjobs so you dont get pregnant. swallow his **** bett you won't wanna see his *** again

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first of all you are way to young to have sex and second you should wait till ur married

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inside susan boyles belly button

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if you dont have somewhere decent to have sex at then you shouldnt be doing it in the first place

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try getting a hotel room

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It is not difficult to have sex standing up, and good.

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Yeah, it is your body, so I guess that you better take good care of it. Why do it so early?

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the park

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In your dreams

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REAL love is patient.

If it is not worth waiting for it is not worth it.

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On a woman I would say.

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Anytime you want, girls around 7 yrs. and boys 9yrs. old.

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come to me i will show where to have sex ummmmaaa

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focus on studies

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in the vag, the mouth or butt, just like everybody else.

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k

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mcdonalds parking lot

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Wherever they want.

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anywhere