Is this crossing the line in dating?

Question

In the early stages of meeting this guy I was uninterested mainly because I noticed when in our church group he'll flirt from one girl to the next. He's really into group dating and will ask me to join and in front of me he'll complement another woman's dimples. I always ignore his texts mainly because he will Facebook comment on several woman and text me the same day. He is religous and isnt physically involved. So now he wants to know what he's doing wrong... why won't I date him? I tell him hes flirting up a storm and he agrees and says he will stop. So I go on a date and the next day my friend tells me he texted her and shows me he says all the same things to her. So I stop all contact and he says he doesn't have a girlfriend so he can do what he wants we are just friends. I say OK. In my mind im an adult and i dont need male friends.Now he's texting me how are you. Am I wrong because he is not mine however I know he's persuing others?

Answer 1

ever heard of having your cake and eating it too? he thinks hes hot **** pretty much, and if any dude is talking to that many females that often hes probly gettin some from one of them. church is one of the best places to pick up girls if your good at it. wait you dont like the guy anyway, his function will come down on itself they always do. all you need to do is find a good place to watch it.

Answer 2

This guy is really under the thumb of religion. He is afraid that he might actually do something that will be frowned upon by some. He is afraid of a personal relationship, but wants to be around girls. Either that or he is gay.

Answer 3

Lindsay-Religious, my butt! He's not religious, merely a flirtatious creep. He's obviously over confident and attempting to be a player, so I suggest you walk away. He's using "faith" as a camouflage to hide his ill meaning womanizing. So, to answer your question, you are not wrong and God does not like ugly, so "Prince Charming" should cut the crap now. Good luck and ignore him.

Answer 4

Don't get involved with him. He obviously isn't ready for a one-on-one relationship.

Answer 5

You should ignore the guy. He's just playing games.

Answer 6

if what you want is a relationship with him, just forget it

Answer 7

your not in the wrong... i would probably do the same thing!!!