Has women's obsession towards alpha males forced all other men to give up on relationships?

Question

I know alpha males get chics but what should men like me do? I am turning 23 next month and never had a girlfriend because I am beta male. Non alpha males are simply forced to live single forever? Why the dating world is do unfair or am I the only who think its unfair?

Answer 1

Most likely buying into this stupidity is your problem. Thinking all women want are your resources instead of looking at other things like your personality, how you treat people etc may be the issue, or possibly the women your attracted towards, if your attracted to gold digger types then what do you expect..

If you go by animals there will only be a small handful of true alpha males amongst humanity, meaning most women in long term relationships are with 'beta' males. The richest and most powerful men in the world are alphas, the betas are anyone else..So your point is invalid, going to the gym doesn't make a guy an alpha, having sex with a model doesn't make a guy an alpha...

Answer 2

The problem with your argument is in recognising who is the alpha male and when.

A 'successful' businessman is just as likely to be a sociopath as alpha.

Beyond that there is no clear deffinition of what exactly is an alpha male.

Most leaders are not true alphas. Look at the wolf pack and its behavior. Does your alpha follow all the requirements or just give orders and direction.

Answer 3

Alpha males cheat and are all over the place. Girls might try dating an alpha male (or what they think what one is) but will marry a omega male. They know their heart is safe there.



Both alpha's (too good for her, has a new girl every week) and omegas (fear of dating/low self confidence) reject women though. It's just hard to find the one, period. Girls don't even talk about alpha and omegas, only guys do.

Answer 4

It depends where you live. I lived all over the world and the majority of the population does prefer Alpha males, i mean come on, you wants a ***** that can't make her feel safe.

But, i've noticed that in the pacific northwest (Seattle, Portland, Idaho) they love non alpha males for boyfriends or husbands. The women up here (hot thin ones only of course) are all taken and it's with some flannel, skinny jean, puma shoes, glasses, vegan, still living with his mom, looking panzy. They also love broke losers who can't keep a job, or live on their own because it makes these women feel significant. They love "Rescue Males". They all think the same thing too "oh, i can fix him".

But, they ALL cheat on their significant other with an Alpha male. Someone who man handles the s**t out of them in the sack and then kick em to the curb when their done. And they'll come back for more.

So good luck trying to find a faithful American woman who likes to be made slow and boring love to, or always be told "what's wrong"?

Answer 5

You can't have chics just because you are handsome looking or you have a personality like a saint. It doesn't work that way. If you closely pay attention to alpha males you will get the answer for yourself. Alpha males are go getters. You might wonder why we women date ugly, dirty and aggro beasts who got a personality like a gorilla, lol I am being humorous but I will tell you the secret alpha males attracts women by their confidence. If you ask me what about other men I don't know its not my concern and I can like whatever I want. See if you can change yourself to an alpha male or bad luck.

Answer 6

We as humans don't have 'alpha males' (that I am aware of) That would not be a reason behind your lack of dating in any event.

Find a girl that you communicate with and there ya go. Often you find them right under your nose.

You may find those women that go for the stereotype 'macho' jerks are not worth the effort anyway.

Think of it like swimming, the only way you learn is jumping into the water.

Answer 7

No not really. It's cucks that did this. People who create and control the job market and dictate the level of economy people have.



Relatively few men meet womens criteria these days. Women live in fantasy land. They think all men will own a giant house with a 6-7 diget income and a network that can land them a role in a block buster film. They assume all men should have that straight out of highschool.



Then after, most women only date men with 6 figure incomes.



That's not alpha, except for maybe Jordan Belfort.



That's cuck. Like overtly feminine men who think stealing rights and privileges from men and giving them to all the other people and cucks will create a society with no threats to a feminine populous.



It's the gay utopia. And these freaks have utterly destroyed the western way of dating. Now we live more like middle eastern where everything is superficial. No one actually believes in their religion or believing in religion in general. And they all conform to money which comes from the religion. In their society. Ours is the media.



The dating world isn't impossible. If you aren't rich you just have to be aware of the dangers (the ways women can treat you like you are gullable and will reject in a heartbeat).



You just have to learn about MGTOW. The only rational response to crazy women.

Answer 8

Every person has a different taste for example a friend of mine prefers beta males because she likes serious relationships as is ready to settle. I prefer alpha males currently because I don't want anything to serious or deep. Like other people said you settle with beta kinda guys or as horrid as it sounds use them if your not ready to settle yet. It's just finding the right person really

Answer 9

I've never know a woman who talks about alpha males as much as men do. You would think many strait men hope to date one.

Answer 10

I'm 5'6, balding, and only age 25, but I've had sex with 3 new girls in the past week and 10 new girls in the past 2 months alone.



Believe me- getting p*ussy can be done. You just need to study study study PUA, psychology, social dynamics, and basically just learn all the ins and outs of making women sexually want to make out with you- and learning how to efficiently close the sale and turn her on. Learning how to kiss her, touch her and turn her on slowly, in a way that teases her and makes her less likely to resist it, is KEY here. You absolutely must be good at this. Study as many videos as you can.

Answer 11

Alpha and beta apply to animal packs. You're not a butt sniffing wild dog. Stop with the stupid "alpha male beta male" frat boy lingo and behaviour and many women will find you attractive. Nobody wants a 30 year old dude-bro.

Answer 12

You must be a total loser, women aren't going after alpha males, they want meek obedient males now, someone they can dominate, don't you know this is the age of feminism?

Answer 13

Hmm..As a girl many girls I realize love the "thrill","posessiveness","bulks" but competition and animal instinct of the "best male out there" is in our nature. Most of us want to be roughly cherished,we love wilderness and it's exciting you know getting an alpha male all over your feet and making the "King" fall in love and let's not forget movies depicting the perfect alpha man image.

But,but,but...

As we mature we all realize at one point that yes thrill is what makes it interesting but at the end it's always love, most alpha men love chase and look out continuously for more fresh meat, when their women realize that they leave them and get heartbroken and that's the point they realize that coming back to "sweet" love is better than coming home to a "rough" love that has lipstick marks on its collar.

Because at the end, the biggest thrill is spending life with the person who cherishes you everyday..

Answer 14

You don't have to be an alpha to get "chics". The reason is probably you. You don't have the looks, personality, or maybe the guts to approach a "chic" you like. I would bet on the 2nd and 3rd.



I know plenty of beta males in relationships, and even some "chics" who like them.

Answer 15

Hi,

I am a woman of mature age, but what is alpha mail or beta mail? Oops I meant male 😆

Answer 16

you must be a total loser, women aren't going after alpha males, they want meek obedient males now, someone they can dominate, don't you know this is the age of feminism?

Answer 17

alpha and beta apply to animal packs... you're not a butt sniffing wild dog... stop with the stupid "alpha male beta male" frat boy lingo and behaviour and numerous women shall find you attractive... nobody wants a 30 year old dude-bro...

Answer 18

Not all of us like alpha males

Answer 19

This sounds like a question I wouldn't be able to answer. I'll wait for the other guys to show up :)

Answer 20

It's probably just the fact that you are entitled and whiny. You sit around expecting girls to come onto you, or worse; you approach them but have strange behavior that's unappealing. Do not blame 'alpha men' for your own shortcomings.

Answer 21

Seattle is where you'd want to look for beta (b( this individual has unique quality about them plus the relationship goes forever

Answer 22

Nope not me. I know girls like me and some are dtf if I turn up. But I don't believe in trying to make this fair.

Answer 23

Women are not obsessed with this idea, it's actually men who classify "alpha" & "beta"..... For them, it's simply,"I am attracted to him" or "I am not attracted to him" kind of guys

Answer 24

hi,

i am a woman of mature age, but what is alpha mail or beta mail? oops i meant male 😆

Answer 25

dude its not a werewolf world.i would never be with a guy whos always in control or is rude,dominant,and cocky.i would be with a guy who is hardworking,gentle,sweet and a guy who cares and loves me.not some alpha male who treats me like ****.

just be yourself.

it doesnt matter how world see you what matters is how u c urslf..

good luck!!

Answer 26

dude its not a werewolf world...i would never be with a guy whos always in control or is rude,dominant,and cocky...i would be with a guy who is hardworking,gentle,sweet and a guy who cares and loves me...not some alpha male who treats me like ****...

just be yourself...

it doesnt matter how world see you what matters is how u c urslf......

good luck!!

Answer 27

dude its not a werewolf world...i would never be with a guy whos always in control or is rude,dominant,and cocky...i would be with a guy who is hardworking,gentle,sweet and a guy who cares and loves me...not some alpha male who treats me like ****...

just be yourself...

it doesnt matter how world see you what matters is how u c urslf......

good luck!!

Answer 28

If you can't beat them join them. Beef up!

Answer 29

Who told you life was fair ? Guess what : Its not . Grow a pair and deal W/ it !

Answer 30

wonen have different tastes. sone like dominant males. sone like to dominate males.

Answer 31

wonen have different tastes... sone like dominant males... sone like to dominate males...

Answer 32

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BjGB9hc5huk

Answer 33

ha ha ha it's all in how you treat us. Ha ha ha ha

Answer 34

You need to vote republican

Answer 35

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Answer 36

fem lol

Answer 37

BINGO. you are totally right .

Answer 38

no

Answer 39

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