is your heart suppose to flutter over a guy?

Question

i dated this guy online for 2 months now and he did make me flutter when he kissed me on our second date and I was nervous and all. he asked me to be his girlfriend on our second date and I said I need more time because I just broken up with my ex not too long ago. He popped the question again last week and I did not know how to respond and I was nervous. I am quite timid and gets embarrassed in these type of situations. I want to say yes, but part of me says no. he's a great guy, but I like him and we talked all the time and get along pretty well.

I like the way he kiss which is alot better than my ex, but how come my heart never really fluttered. Is your heart suppose to flutter over a guy?

We let each other date other people online in the beginning, but now I don't want to date any other guys but him because he was the first guy I dated before I broke up with my ex. I don't want to lose him and I know if we get together that out parents will get along and all. I want to meet his parents too because I have a feeling his parents will like me.

I just want to know why my heart isn't fluttering. When he told me he wasn't coming back this week because his friends asked him to go clubbing. I got mad and I would get jealous when he told me he dated and spoke to other girls online. Why is my heart not fluttering, but get jealous?

Anyways he stopped dating other girls online because he said that he wants me to be his girlfriend only and he talks about the future of raising a family and all. He brought me to his house today.

I would also smile when I think of him but not flutter at all.

he surprised me with flowers and I think I fluttered a bit and I was ecstatic but not flutter like crazy.

I fluttered more with my ex because he gave me signs indicating he liked me and it made me curious and all, but is that why fluttered?

Can someone tell me what's wrong with me and please don't tell me that online dating is dangerous and that my date is going to lie, I know these things and I will be prepared for it and be careful.

Answer 1

Online dating is not the best way to judge who a man really is. As for all the "heart fluttering" stuff, I'm going to be frank with you: I'm seriously unsure why you'd use that as any serious indication of anything.



If your heart is fluttering it's a sure sign you're having an adrenaline rush. All that means is you are physically excited. But please don't read into it any more than that. All it means is infatuation, which is notoriously bad for gauging whether or not someone is actually COMPATIBLE or healthy for you.

Answer 2

yeah this sounds normal. heart fluttering is knows as palpitations and means your heart is beating in an irregular rhythem. it can be serious but if its only happening at the times you said then its fine and yeah it can be a reaction to affection. i would enjoy it because sadly it wont last forever.

Answer 3

You sound like you are compfortable with his presents if you don't think your heart is fluttering don't worrie your on the right track tell him to do somthing to make your heart flutter and if he trys and fails it's not meant to be

Answer 4

If you aren't talking to any other guy because of him, you should date him. Maybe then you'll have this flutter you're looking for. You just gotta give yourself time and him a chance to surprise you more often and show his affection for you. You obviously like him, so I say go for it.





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Answer 5

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